Frequently Asked Questions

What Is Yoni Elixir, Who Is It For & How Should I Use It?

Yoni Elixir is a lubricant oil designed especially for women who: want to experience greater pleasure in their own bodies. want to activate, revitalise and radiate their sensuality. want to deepen their intimate connections with their partners. want healthy, natural lubricant options. want to develop more natural radiance and inner well being. know there is more healing to be done around their sexuality. are experiencing vaginal dryness. are sensitive to energy and the emotions of others. know that sex offers far more possibility for healing and spiritual expansion and desire to explore that who just want to feel like they are honoured and adored. It is maximised for your pleasure by allowing a sense of safety in your nervous system at the same time as activating your sense of self love and abundant sensuality. Yoni Elixir should be used for your self pleasure activities as a lubricant and/or massage oil for yoni massage. Also use Yoni Elixir for your self care practises such as daily breast massage (just keep a bottle in the shower to remind you). Use also with your partner for heart opening connection. Men also can benefit from the beneficial properties of Yoni Elixir when used to massage their heart/chest area, as well as their lingam (penis) and anus (a primary area of eroticism for men, as well as healing release...this is where they store masses of unexpressed emotion). At a minimum, apply a small amount to your heart area each day and breathe deeply into your heartspace. This will help you feel safe in opening up your emotional flow and connect more deeply to your self and others for ease of intimacy and self connected love. For best activation and connection, apply a little to your Yoni each day too to get the energy of your feminine radiance active and moving. Breathe down into your Yoni as you apply and breathe up the sensations of arousal to allow pleasure throughout your whole body ... try this every day for a week and see what changes you'll notice. Others will notice too, "You look great, what have you been doing? Did you get a haircut?" 😉 😇

What ingredients are in Yoni Elixir?

Yoni Elixir’s Ingredients Explained: Sweet Almond Oil (Prunus dulcis seed) (base oil) Sweet almond oil is full of vitamin E which releases oxidative stress from your skin, vitamin A which smooths and clears, monosaturated fatty acids which provide the smooth layer of protection and smoothness, proteins, potassium, and zinc which also contribute to the health of your skin. It is smooth and maintains its lube qualities for a longer period than other oils such as coconut oil. Baobab Oil (Adansonia Digitata) (base oil) An excellent, ultra high quality moisturiser as well as possessing great qualities for healing the skin and scar tissue. Containing Vitamin E, Vitamin A (as beta carotene) and Vitamin K, Baobab Oil acts as an anti-oxidant and also contains anti-inflammatory omega fatty acids as well as the emotional healing properties of the Boab tree which works deeply with ancestry. A thicker, non-siccative oil, means it give you an excellent lasting lubrication that remains oily and smooth longer before absorbing into the skin. Jojoba Oil (Simmondsia Chinensis) (base oil) Jojoba Oil contains many essential fatty acids, powerful antioxidants and vitamins. Naturally rich in vitamins A, D and E, jojoba oil works to regenerate skin cells. It also contains fatty acids omega 6 and 9, as well as docosenol which are antiviral and work to repair damaged skin cells. It is anti-inflammatory and promotes skin suppleness while assisting with the rejuvenation of the skin. An anti-bacterial, emollient (moisturising) and lubricating oil that is closest to your skin’s natural oils. Raspberry Leaf (Rubus Idaeu) (infusion) A healthy womb and menstrual cycle with hormonal balance is paramount to experiencing the joys of being a woman and therefore the utmost of honouring your Self and your pleasure. An astringent herb, Red Raspberry Leaf has been long known for its properties that support women’s menstrual health and pregnancy, toning the uterus, strengthening the uterine wall, clearing toxins from your system and aiding to support healthy periods pregnancies, and detoxify hormones. Vitamins B, C, and E which are helpful for their immune properties and for energy and this Herb is also naturally high in magnesium, potassium, iron. Externally it also helps sunburn, eczema, rashes, and other skin irritations. Sacred Sage (Salvia Apiana) (infusion) Creating a safe and comfortable space for deep intimacy, love and pleasure extends beyond just the body and also into the energetic fields. Sage is commonly used by indigenous cultures to purify environments, increase intuition, and stimulate healing. It is also believed to be a conduit of divine messages and to keep the energy field clear of negative energy. Less known is that sage also reduces heavy menstruation, relieves cold and flu symptoms, treats candida overgrowth, treats staph and fungal infection, cleanses toxins, is beneficial during labor and after childbirth (uterine stimulant), promotes liver and bladder health, eases headaches, enhances Memory and Cognitive Function, elevates emotional mood and combats depression. Withania (Withania Somnifera) (infusion) Known as an all in one women’s tonic, Withania is an important ingredient in Yoni Elixir as an all over contributor to your health. Cultivating a naturally healthy body is a huge part of creating self care and self love. A healthy body is also one that responds well to stimulation and has energy to enjoy the love making process, whether with yourself or another. Withania relieves pain by lowering serotonin levels, which contribute to the sensitivity of pain receptors in the body. It is considered a good tonic for the mind and useful for those who have overindulged in work, drugs, or alcohol. Withania has multiple benefits including addressing Anemia, Anorexia, Anxiety, Arthritis, Asthma, Bipolar Depression, Bronchitis, Cancer, Candida, Convalescence, Dyspepsia, Edema, Emaciation, Exhaustion, Fatigue, Forgetfulness, Gray Hair, Headache, Hypertension, Illness, Impotence, Infertility, Insomnia, Low Sperm-count, Lumbago, Memory Loss, Mental Fatigue, Neurosis, Overwork, Panic Attacks, Premature Aging, Pulmonary Edema, Rheumatism, Stress, Tremors, Wounds Pau d’arco (Tabebula Avellanadae) (infusion) Infections and thrush do not contribute to the level of sexy one feels in her gorgeous body! Pau d’arco is an anti-fungal, anti-bacterial addition to which can also provide relief for vaginitis, which is caused by candida. It can assist with infections and inflammation and aid to tone muscles. Chamomile (Matricaria Chamomilla) (infusion) Highly important to a woman’s orgasmic pleasure state is the ability to be relaxed, out of the head, calm and safe. Chamomile helps to restore an exhausted nervous system, reduces irritation and helps you to settle into the relaxed state required to truly be present with pleasure and sensation. Chamomile also accelerates wound healing and reduces skin inflammation. Ylang Ylang (Cananga Odorata) (essential oil) Ylang Ylang is known as the sexy, sensual and aphrodisiac oil. It’s sweet, fruity and floral fragrance evoking the feminine and the deliciousness of womanhood. It is a mood elevator and the ultimate nervous system oil for mild anxiety and depression. Ylang Ylang can be used to ease pregnancy stress, anxiety and insomnia. Additionally, it is believed to relieve high blood pressure, and frigidity as well as normalize sebum secretion for skin problems. For Chakra work, Ylang Ylang Essential Oil is said to help balance the Sacral and Solar Plexus Chakras, highly important for an innate sense of personal power which most women need to restore around their sexuality. Rose Geranium (Pelargonium Roseum) (essential oil) Rose Geranium is a beautiful smelling, feminine oil that encourages a self nurturing and self loving state of being, bringing you deeper into your heart and a present state of being with yourself. where it helps to relieve feelings of stress and anxiety, and to balance the hormone system It works with your whole being, relieving feelings of stress and anxiety, detoxifying the body, lymphatic stimulation and healing wounds, balancing hormones, treating PMS as well as balancing vaginal secretion and heavy periods. Myrrh (Gommiphora Myrrha) (essential oil) Myrrh is considered to be restorative to the spirit and the soul and is well known in ancient scriptures as an oil with valued spiritual properties, clearing and uplifting the spirit. This oil is highly valued in aromatherapy as a sedative, antidepressant and as a promoter of spiritual feelings. This oil stimulates the womb and assists in uterine health. It helps fading away of scars, as well as other skin irritations, reduces inflammation and itches and is anti fungal, anti-oxidant and antiseptic. It is also an emenagogue which means that it normalizes menstruation and relieves the associated symptoms like mood swings and hormonal imbalances with regulation of the glandular systems. Bergamot (Citrus Aurantium ssp Bergamia) (essential oil) Bergamot also smells amazing and works with the causes of odour, while additionally encouraging a relaxed state, reducing pain, providing antibacterial, disinfectant, antibiotic & antifungal properties as well as relaxing nerves and muscles and healing wounds.

How do I do a Yoni Massage?

A Yoni Massage done well has the potential to be an incredibly healing process for any woman. It will depend on your intention...Is this for healing? Or is this for sensual pleasure? Either way can result in an emotional response, so it's important that you set your intention and the container for the massage very clearly from the start. Always remember to be very, very slow and check with the pressure when touching the yoni. Be prepared for deep emotions to surface, they may not, and that is not wrong. Do be aware that this is a possibility and a response to be honoured. Let her know that all emotions are welcome. Here's a summary of important elements to include:

  1. Set the space. Make it comfortable. Create an atmosphere with soft or sensual music, candles (safely placed), and enticing scents. Ensure you have adequate time and will not be interrupted by phones or people. Have any items of equipment (such as sarongs or feather ticklers and your Yoni Elixir) handy and set within reach.
  2. Set the intention. If you are doing self massage set this anyway. With a partner, be clear together on what the massage is about and what it is not about. Ensure you establish a way of communicating and continue the communication clearly throughout the massage. Take some time to eye gaze and set a sense of safety with words and touch. You may wish to take a few minutes to meditate together.
  3. Warm up your body with sensual dance or by activating the senses in other ways.
  4. Massage the entire body, slowly, but not touching the yoni area. Working toward awakening all parts of her/yourself. Begin on the back, and move to the front. Ensure communication is kept.
  5. Massage the pelvis area before asking for consent to touch the yoni. Placing your left hand on her heart and right hand over her entire pubic area, take a few deep breaths with the intention to connect her heart and yoni as well as you connecting to your heart and hands.
  6. Begin the massage with the outer lips of the labia and moving toward the innter. Allow the receiver to guide and always check your pressure.
  7. Check for signs that she is opening, and ask again before gently inserting your index finger, using a clock - like navigating system (12'oclock is just inside at the top, 3 to the right side, 6 o'clock is at the bottom and 9 to the left). Use gentle circular motions at each "o'clock" always ensuring to check in with how the pressure is feeling, looking for signs of discomfort or pain or numbness. Once you have moved around the clock near the entrance, you may move deeper in and go around the clock again.
  8. Depending on your original intention and asking again, you may now move into activating pleasure. Work with the g-spot and the cervix.
  9. Remember to always remove fingers VERY, VERY slowly.
  10. Allow time for integration of the process. Give her time to relax for at least ten minutes. Make sure she is warm and offer her some water after this time.
  11. You may wish to reconnect with each other with a heart connected hug, hand holding or joint meditation again afterward.

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Why 'Yoni'? Why not 'Vagina'?

The word Yoni is an ancient Sanskrit word which encompasses a woman's entire reproductive area and views it as sacred. yoni ˈjəʊni/ noun HINDUISM noun: yoni; plural noun: yonis Sanskrit, literally ‘source, womb, female genitals’. the vagina and vulva, especially as a symbol of divine procreative energy; sacred space; temple The etymology of the word 'Vagina' is a in for a sword. You can imagine what sword we are referring to here...this gives ownership of a woman's sexual body away immediately as well as limiting its purpose and thereby attributing shame to any other way of viewing your body, and of course your pleasure. Also, Vagina only refers to the internal area leading from the vaginal entance to the cervix, thus not considering the vulva or clitoris or the uterus, cervix or any other part of a woman's sexual anatomy. Referring to the vagina alone, again, reduces the enrire woman's sexual body to a single portion. 'Yoni' is all encompassing, sacred, honour-giving terminology. 'Vagina' is reductionist and shame inducing.

How is Yoni Elixir Made?

The process of creation of Yoni Elixir is treated as sacred, as is its intention of use. Yoni Elixir is exclusively hand made in small batches to ensure its utmost integrity to both the ingredients and the specific, high resonance conditions under which it is created. We are each individual, amazing creations of this fabulous planet Gaia and as such we each deserve to be using products that are of the same high value. Yoni Elixir is created under strict conditions, with high resonance 528+HZ sounds infused into it, along with a deeply meditative process of intention setting and honour throughout it's entire creation. Each ingredient in Yoni Elixir is of highest quality and is given its full potency by being treated with utmost respect, honour and gratitude. As should be the women who use it.